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Part of me wishes that my best friend wasn't with his current boyfriend, mostly because I hate being second place. I don't really understand the appeal in his partner.
He admit to me recently that when I first moved he was looking for an opportunity to get with me, which asking if I was queer two days into the friendship (he's transmasc- more androgynous presenting) now made sense. Which by the way, I don't think I am.
He asked me if I was queer before he met his current partner. His partner is shorter than me, though with far better fat distribution, looser curls, Indian and a more secure identity- at least from what I can tell.
He sometimes makes jokes about his type being brown people. It doesn't help. I don't have feelings for him and if my self esteem wasn't so low I wouldn't care about it and I'd be good friends with his boyfriend.
Genuinely I don't understand what caused me to have such low self esteem. This is actually pathetic. I'm sure there's plenty appeal in his partner that I just refuse to see because I don't want to feel worse about myself, but being wilfully ignorant like this doesn't help.
He admit to me recently that when I first moved he was looking for an opportunity to get with me, which asking if I was queer two days into the friendship (he's transmasc- more androgynous presenting) now made sense. Which by the way, I don't think I am.
He asked me if I was queer before he met his current partner. His partner is shorter than me, though with far better fat distribution, looser curls, Indian and a more secure identity- at least from what I can tell.
He sometimes makes jokes about his type being brown people. It doesn't help. I don't have feelings for him and if my self esteem wasn't so low I wouldn't care about it and I'd be good friends with his boyfriend.
Genuinely I don't understand what caused me to have such low self esteem. This is actually pathetic. I'm sure there's plenty appeal in his partner that I just refuse to see because I don't want to feel worse about myself, but being wilfully ignorant like this doesn't help.