Hello again, and congratulations on being almost 10 months self-harm free! That's probably a really good feeling, and I'm proud of you for making it so far! But yes, I think in the end it's more about the journey than about the destination, if that makes sense... like, finding ways to make life feel more comfortable in your day-to-day life instead of feeling like it's barely tolerable and pushing yourself through it every single day. It works twofold because then it makes life feel more enjoyable while also assisting you more with trying to reach those goals in a way where you're not constantly focusing on doing everything "right".

Regardless, though, I still am proud of you for your progress, and I wish for your continued success! :)